To every introvert, the act of finding a significant other means doing the opposite of what you love most — blowing through another Netflix murder mystery series in fleece-lined sweatpants. But if you actually want a partner-in-crime-docs, it means the dreaded Putting Yourself Out There. Yes, it might mean squandering a night in for a Tinder date who talks about investment banking all night long and never ask you a single question. But, luckily, there are some ways to make the act of going out just a little less of a daunting hell-ride. Here are 11 tips for dating if you're a tried-and-true introvert:.
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Even if you are an introvert, your life should not end up in loneliness. Yes, you might be the person who is not craving attention round-the-clock. Instead, you want to sit in the corner and do whatever your soul wants without human interference.
Over the weekend, a friend of mine asked me for a little advice. She is an extrovert dating a very introverted man and she was looking for some tips of how to negotiate and understand the inevitable conflicts that come about when these two personality types attempt to experience intimacy together. Think about how broken down and exhausted you feel after a really, really hard night of partying and realize that an introvert feels that way after most large gatherings.