Tessa has been a confirmed INTJ woman for more than 40 years. For every five hundred women, only four have an INTJ profile. Natural leaders and highly competent they may be, but they are often misunderstood. Here's why. It's one of the sixteen Myers-Briggs profiles, the most popularly utilized psychometric test in the world.
They are energized through taking on new pursuits and rising up to challenges — and they will crush whatever or whomever gets in their way. Trying to distract or dissuade them from this pursuit will end badly for everyone. Just give them space to explore it — or better yet, take an interest in what they are doing. ENTPs are quick thinkers and smooth talkers — two qualities that can be difficult to keep up with. This type enjoys nothing more than examining multiple sides of a theory and their favorite way to do it is out loud, through a stimulating discussion with someone else. Intellect is direly important to this type and they seek out partners who value knowledge, analysis and intellectual growth above all else.
When it comes to dating and flirting most ENTPs are natural charmers, but there is much more to them than just this. They often behave differently than people expect when it comes to being in a relationship, and so it is important to know their values and what they are searching for. Everyone has their own hopes and desires for romantic connections, some more demanding than others. ENTPs can actually be rather flirtatious people, since they are naturally outgoing and playful.
At first sight one might even confuse the two types. These two types are usually not at conflict with each other and there is ground for a fun relationship between them. The ENTJ is usually in a more favorable position in this relationship unless the ESTP is in a much higher position in society either by education, moneywise or socially. This can be positive because the ENTJ desires to be seen as smart and competent. Although for a long term love relationship people should seek someone who has the same perceiving letter N or S , the ESTP-ENTJ relationship has the potential to be ideal if there is some natural attraction between the two people involved.