The lived experience of recovery in borderline personality disorder: a qualitative study
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder
Recovering your life after a BPD relationship can be an extremely difficult time. After all, I like to be jolly and keep things upbeat. Upbeat, I tell ya! So let me bring some positive vibes in this time of healing for you. And while I did go through a lot of pain, I am more strong and independent than ever before.
Borderline Personality Disorder Recovery and Remission
Some of the comments hit home because, from an early age, I have had an extremely tempestuous love life, but I also know it can work if both partners learn to understand each other. This is a hard concept to explain to a healthy person, who may have only ever felt something close to this when someone they love passes away, or they lose something they hold dear in their life. People with BPD, even in their happiest periods, experience this pervasive feeling of emptiness almost every day, and often they try and fill this with things that stimulate them. Personally, the only thing that gives me true happiness is other people, which is why BPD is a cruel illness — because most people who suffer from it are gregarious, true people lovers, but they struggle to maintain close relationships because of their illness.
Have you started dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder? Was your partner recently diagnosed with BPD? Do you think your significant other may have a disorder — BPD or maybe even something else?