We all want to find that perfect guy. We spend so much of our time waiting, searching, and going through the motions of dating until we find what we're looking for. It's happened to many a gal. The situation feels hopeless until, suddenly, you're on a great first date, and that turns into a second.
If so, dating multiple people at the same time seems like the only option left. However, the loophole in your perfect dating plan is not getting caught and hurting the persons involved. So, how do you find your way around not being seen as a serial dater , a cheat, or as someone who is obsessed with men? I absolutely get you as I have found myself at a similar crossroads in the past. Dating multiple people afforded me the opportunity to go out with a couple of persons at the same time without really committing to anyone in particular. I was able to feel them up close until I found someone who I felt more connections with. Not to worry, as I have highlighted a few tips below that will show you how can you date multiple guys without being shady.
How to Deal With Other Guys Hitting on the Same Girl as You
BuzzFeed writer Grace Spelman knows this firsthand. She chronicled her attempts to politely reject a man who messaged her first on Twitter, before moving to every other social media platform. It can be a daunting task to get rid of a man. This may be the oldest trick in the book. If you run in the same circles, try flirting with someone else to show your disinterest.
Get expert help with the all-important decision of which guy to pick. Click here to chat online to someone right now. The point where you have to pick might just be the point when you start to feel a little uncomfortable with the situation. But it might not necessarily be you that dictates when you need to pick a lane. I know, I know.