Women say they want the nice guy. But I'm not so sure. I recently had the following IM conversation with my friend Jill:. Poor Dave! He's losing out to punks, bar tenders and rock stars! Nothing against these occupations not that being a punk is an occupation.
Let me tell you why this happens…. When we use this excuse you will hear words and phrases such as:. Men use it as the ideal blanket excuse for their lack of dating success. I need some space. What is wrong with normal?
The answers were split down the middle. Half of the recipients used words like considerate , friendly, kind, amiable, generous. The other half opted for dull, unconfident, needy, weak, self-centred , and clingy. The chap always believes he falls into group one.