The email came from out of the blue a few months ago. It was from the wife of a man I had been secretly involved with. I always wondered what she knew, if anything. Why was she confronting me now? We live on separate coasts now. Was she accusing me of turning her husband gay?
At the moment, I didn't think much about how it will affect us. I just let him and he did it for a very long time. It was almost about a full half-hour when I came. He swallowed and everything. He went to the bathroom to wash his mouth and stuff and while he was doing that I just laid down and fell asleep in order to avoid talking about it.
Growing Up With a Gay Father – Confessions from a Straight Son
This article was published in collaboration with Vice. He looked like he could barely hold it together. His dark complexion was ashen, and there was dried toothpaste around his mouth. When I asked him how he was doing, it took a full four seconds before he answered.
Full disclosure. This post is very unusual compared to my normal posts. I hope you enjoy. From my earliest memories of my Dad around age 5, I think I always knew my dad was gay.